Approximately 16 million students will be enrolled in an undergraduate program this fall, and while it may still be a few weeks away, now is the best time to cram college tips for the upcoming semester. It is predicted that the Trump administration and budget cuts from the “Big Beautiful Bill” will cut FAFSA funding opportunities for the middle and working class to pursue education after high school – and while I am a strong advocate that college isn’t for everyone, it can be the magic key in opening future careers.

For most, college is both exciting and terrifying. Along with turning eighteen, entering college is the cornerstone of young adulthood for Americans. Finished with high school, college is the first real transition Americans experience as they move away to live separately from their parents. That brings independence, new social opportunities, the need for money management, and everything else that comes with living on your own.

While it is estimated that just 0.5% of the adult American population identifies as transgender, roughly 2.2% of college students identify as such – likely since younger generations are more likely to identify as LGBTQIA+ due to decreasing social stigma and increasing tolerance compared to previous decades. Transgender college students are more likely to experience barriers to healthcare, campus housing, and bullying than their cisgender counterparts.

You’re Protected: Know Your Rights

Historically, transgender students have been protected by Title IX of the 1964 Civil Rights Act. The explicitness of this has varied from the Obama, Biden, and Trump administrations, but it’s been agreed by the courts for some time. Currently, Trump maintains that sexual orientation and gender identity do not constitute added categories under Title IX, but that doesn’t eliminate students’ rights under it. Trump is arguing that Title IX only applies based on biological sex, BUT queer and transgender students still maintain federal protection under that definition.

Until recently, the legal understanding of Title IX was that if the law applies to biological sex, then discrimination against one’s adherence or nonadherence to biological sex-associated gender roles and stereotypes wholly falls under Title IX as sex discrimination. If a gay man is harassed on campus because he isn’t masculine enough, it constitutes Title IX because anti-queer harassment ultimately relies on sex-based stereotypes. All Biden’s guidance did was allow LGBTQIA+ students to file discrimination more easily since they could argue it was based on sexual orientation or gender identity rather than having to make the roundabout case above. TLDR: You are still protected under Title IX as a transgender student, but under the Trump administration, you’ll have to file your argument differently.

The Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA) protects students’ information and confidentiality. Once in college, your parents can no longer have access to your records without your explicit consent. So, while your parents would know if you changed your name or pronouns on school documents while in high school, that is no longer the case at college since FERPA forbids that information from being shared. FERPA also requires schools to prevent outing as much as possible, so staff are unable to share your personal information with other professors or students.

According to the National Center for Transgender Equality:

• Colleges cannot require proof of your gender identity or legal changes to update most documents like student emails, IDs, and rosters. The only exception to this is your health records and college diploma, which will require legal documentation to change.
• Professors need to call you by your chosen name, even if it’s not legally changed. People are allowed to make honest mistakes, but purposely misgendering and deadnaming transgender students puts them at increased risk of harm since it outs them.
• Colleges have a responsibility to take action when informed of bullying, harassment, and discrimination on campus – including when it applies to queer and transgender students.
• Students have a right to use the restroom and locker room that aligns with their gender identity, and colleges cannot force students to use separate facilities. It’s great if a school has a gender-neutral bathroom, but they can’t require you to use it since that would violate the Equal Access Act. I’ll caveat here that locker rooms are up in the air since the Trump administration is waging a war on transgender students’ access to sports.
• You have the right to present yourself as your gender identity. Colleges cannot police or restrict expression simply because they dislike it or it’s “controversial.” The Supreme Court has a long history of supporting students’ right to self-expression. Schools cannot ban you from wearing a dress unless they ban dresses amongst all students, nor can they ban a shirt with a progressive rainbow unless they ban all graphic shirts.
• Students have a right to choose who and who not to tell they are LGBTQIA+. Colleges are forbidden from outing students under FERPA, which includes details like your deadname, transgender status, and medical history.
• If your college offers extracurricular activities (like chess club, Christian associations, or D&D), you have the right to form and be in a school LGBTQIA+ association like a Gay-Straight Alliance.

These laws apply to all American universities and colleges that receive federal funding. Even if they are religious, institutions that use federal funding must adhere to Title IX, FERPA, and other federal laws. Schools that do not want to follow these rules must either be entirely privately funded or apply for religious exemption, which is relatively difficult to get. Out of those colleges, I wouldn’t recommend trans students since these colleges are notoriously anti-transgender.

In addition to these federal protections, you may be further entitled (or marginalized) based on where exactly you live in the United States. Some states, like California, New York, and Illinois, have comprehensive laws protecting LGBTQIA+ students, while others, like Texas and Florida, fall short.

Even if you live in a conservative state, your university might still include LGBTQIA+ identities in its nondiscrimination policies – so it’s important to research your schools! I highly recommend Campus Pride Index as a free resource. They’ve been researching and compiling colleges since 2006 and have a searchable database that gives users insight into cost, atmosphere, and other useful metrics on what LGBTQIA+ resources are available at their school. It’s by far the easiest way to determine if a college has a queer resource center, campus events, nondiscrimination policies, and healthcare coverage. They even maintain lists of the country’s best and worst campuses for LGBTQIA+ students. If your school is not listed on Campus Pride, you should still be able to locate relevant policies. Most often, you’ll want to search for “nondiscrimination policies,” “student handbooks,” or general “policies and guidelines.” If internet searches fail you, don’t hesitate to reach out to your admin staff – they’re there to help you when you have questions about campus policies!

Amongst your university’s policies, you’ll also find guidelines on how to report harassment, discrimination, and general bullying. Always try to follow your college’s established procedures first when you experience harassment – give your administration the benefit of the doubt and remember to document all incidents, filed complaints, and communication you have with administration. If your school refuses to take your complaint seriously, you should then involve outside resources like local LGBTQIA+ nonprofits, GLSEN, or your state ACLU chapter. These organizations will help you determine the next steps best suited for your situation.

Some situations might require you to file a lawsuit against your school. You will likely want to have guidance from a legal authority like the ACLU before proceeding with filing or sourcing a competent legal group to represent you. You can also file complaints to the United States Department of Education – but given the political climate, you might not get a good response regardless of your legal rights. If you go this route, remember you only have 180 days to file a complaint with the Department and to file the discrimination as “sex-based.” Complaints that are not fully completed are automatically trashed and not investigated. Include as many details as possible, and keep in mind that your complaint is required to be confidential under federal law.

Originally hosted by Campus Pride via the Trans Policy Clearinghouse (TPC), Genny Beemyn has an ongoing database of trans-inclusive nondiscrimination policies online. Check their site to see if your school is on the list.

Get the Paperwork Done Ahead of Time

You’re going to be busy the first week of the semester. Everyone is. Try to get all your paperwork completed before the first day of class and reduce future headaches. Nearly all of this will require working with your campus administration, for better or worse.

As mentioned above, universities do not legally have to have a court order or medical documentation to update your name or gender marker in most of their electronic systems, but the process for doing so likely won’t be easy or straightforward unless they have already set up their systems for these changes. Many schools use ancient software to process and store student information, which is why admins huff and puff at being asked to change a student’s name. However, a process being annoying or difficult is not grounds to deny you from changing your name or gender marker at school. At college, you are paying to be there – the admins essentially work for you, and your comfort, safety, and overall confidentiality are worth pursuing. Some examples of items you can (and should) change include:

• Your official school email, including associated accounts with it, like Word and Outlook.
• Your public name in homework submission portals like Blackboard and Canvas.
• Your school ID.
• Classroom rosters.
• Sports uniforms, if applicable.

The only items that require a legal order from a court to update in university software are:

• Your diploma and transcript.
• Financial aid information stored by FAFSA and your college’s financial aid office.
• And personal health information stored by your college’s health center.

Anything else can be changed as an unofficial nickname. Your university is able to mark you as your identified gender in the class roster sent to campus professors without a court-ordered gender marker change. Legal orders only require your school to comply, but it is entirely possible to change most items before that point.

Dr. Genny Beemyn has the most current database of universities and colleges that allow transgender students to use a nonlegal name or pronouns in their files, originally hosted through Campus Pride’s TPC. Check their site to see if your school makes the list.

I’m not naïve – and I don’t recommend you be, either. Despite the law and clear instructions, I have been told myself by college admins things along the lines of “no, we can’t do that without court papers” and “hmm, yeah, I think we know the law better than you do and we don’t have to update your information.” I’ve also come across administrators who are extremely willing to make those minor changes – and my experience isn’t an anomaly. Given the environment academic administrators work in, you’re going to get a mixed bag of individuals who are willing to help as well as others who will throw a fit at your request. Some of them might be aware of LGBTQIA+ issues and why it’s important to get these items changed, while other administrators will huff because “it’s against their religion” to treat you with respect or update your information. And unfortunately, they hold all of the cards. In the event you experience discrimination from your university administration, you will have to follow your campus’ procedures for reporting it – which requires more conversations with admin. Depending on how LGBTQIA+ competent your school is, this paperwork could be an uphill battle.

It’s considered one of the lesser aspects of going to college, but enrolling in university generally also usually requires you to obtain your own healthcare coverage. This coverage must either be the policy offered by your university or deemed to be of equal coverage by your administrators. As a transgender student, these policies are important since they determine whether you will be able to medically transition while enrolled. The good news is that the Affordable Care Act (aka Obamacare) forbids healthcare insurances from making blanket bans on medically necessary care, so your school’s insurer isn’t allowed to ban all trans-affirming care, BUT they can put a number of hoops you’ll have to jump through. Even though trans-affirming care is being attacked across the country, all of these laws focus on minors. The primary gap left is if you’re 18 and insured under Medicaid, since Trump increased the age requirement to 19 for Medicaid users to access gender-affirming care.

Regardless, the Trans Policy Clearinghouse has a list of colleges that explicitly list their transgender healthcare inclusions – now hosted on Genny Beemyn’s website.

The last major player in this category is housing. Most people don’t know who their roommate will be, although a growing number of universities are trying to match students with compatible roommates based on preferences. This can be even more anxiety-inducing for transgender students since you have to worry further about what gender you’ll be assigned for housing and whether your roommate will be chill with your identity or totally hateful. At least 470 schools are documented as having “gender-inclusive housing” on campus, which means there is a dorm, facility, or other living space that students can live in regardless of gender identity or sex assigned at birth. Genny Beemyn has an ongoing database of schools that publicly list having these housing options available, but the vast majority of high-ranking colleges on the Campus Pride Index will have this available.

Live Your Life: Finding the Basics for Survival

Considering most Americans begin college around the age of eighteen, university presents the first genuine opportunity for students to medical transition through gender-affirming care like hormone replacement therapy. The feasibility of doing so will depend on your school’s healthcare coverage, but the bottom line is that the ACA requires such care to be possible if you manage to complete their required steps, since gender-affirming care is medically necessary. Typically, these steps include sourcing a licensed mental health professional who is willing to write a letter certifying that your transgender identity is ‘established,’ not a phase, and you can make major decisions like beginning HRT based on your current mental state.

No matter how conservative your university is, you are not the first transgender student that has attended it, although you might be one of its first openly trans students. Transgender people live in all climates, including cities, suburbs, and the rural countryside. If your school has an LGBTQIA+ resource center or queer student organization, ask them first where trans students go for gender-affirming healthcare. If your school doesn’t, you’ll have to do some research: ask around online, like city-specific Facebook groups and subreddits, call the nearest LGBTQIA+ nonprofit, or visit a government health department. The last two will have staff available with the purpose of finding relevant resources – so use ’em!

Even if you’re battling administration for the items I referenced in the previous section, you can still email your upcoming professors prior to the semester. Most professors make an effort to use students’ nicknames anyway to foster a better classroom environment. So, if you happen to know who your professors will be, send them an email before the first day explaining your situation and that your assigned name and gender on their official roster don’t match what you go by. Use this email template and plug in your information. Even though my college admin eventually did change my name in their systems, I still had to send out emails since rosters were sent before the admin had made the change.

If you’re going the route of emailing your professors, remember it won’t solve everything. Without your university administration updating official rosters, you will encounter issues with other staff. Most often, this applies to substitute teachers and teacher assistants – subs sometimes get copies of the official roster rather than the one your regular professor uses. This means you can potentially be outed by a sub until your campus information is actually changed.

If you are beginning to live openly trans for the first time, you’ll discover how difficult it can be to advocate for yourself. More than anyone else, you have your best interests in mind – and there are uneducated people in every space, including college. Prepare for headaches, find quick resources to give to curious folks, learn when to shut down ‘curious’ Devil’s advocates, and have a plan in place to deal with incoming microaggressions. This is easier said than done, but I cannot emphasize how important it is for your own sake as well as future transgender students that will inevitably attend your university. Yes, it can be easier to just ride out the semester and not correct the side remarks by your professor – and sometimes, that’s what you need to do to emotionally and physically survive. But by not confronting those hard conversations, you leave the work for the next student that comes.

To an extent, you can also research trans-friendly restrooms, businesses, and events close to campus prior to the semester beginning – although sometimes it’s smoother to wait until you have real people to ask while navigating your first weeks. When you’re early in your transition, you need to feel safe and comfortable. Genny Beemyn has TPC’s previous list of universities with published maps of gender-neutral restrooms on campus, BUT I also recommend the REFUGE app. REFUGE is a free mobile app that lets users pinpoint trans-friendly bathrooms. You might be the first in your area to utilize the app and have a blank slate, or you might find a filled map with a treasure trove of tips. Either way, REFUGE allows you to build an underground resource for yourself and others at your school.

While on campus, the best (and most traditional) way to determine whether a space is LGBTQIA+ friendly is through “safe space” signage. Today, these signs are most common among less progressive schools where acceptance isn’t seen as the norm, but they’re great anywhere. Beyond campus grounds, these apps and sites are good ways to find trans-affirming spaces:

• Google Maps has a specific label/tag used for businesses deemed LGBTQIA+ friendly, BUT this tag is largely self-reported by business owners. It’s technically possible for businesses to tag themselves because they’re gay-friendly but anti-trans.
• Strands for Trans is an online database for barbershops and hair salons.
• Everywhere Is Queer is a mobile app for all businesses (including virtual ones), similar to Strands for Trans. Businesses self-report whether they identify as LGBTQIA+ friendly.
• For bars and nightlife, look into GayCities, Travel Gay, and Yelp. GayCities and Travel Gay are better options if you live near a metropolitan area, but Yelp is more helpful for less populated regions.

Beyond websites and mobile apps, the best way to really determine whether a business is trans-friendly is by word of mouth. Find other queer and trans people on campus or a queer nonprofit – their experiences are worth significantly more than self-reported labels online. And while I’m aware of other websites that compile businesses, like Pink Robin, Hey Fam, LGBTQ+ Business Week, LGBTQIA Hub, and the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce, these sites focus heavily on e-commerce. Large cities like NYC and the Queer Money Project – and cities are more likely to have listings on apps such as Qlist and MisterB&B.

Support Yourself: Self-Care Matters

In order to thrive at college, you have to think beyond the basics. Between assignments and dealing with less-than-supportive classmates and staff, you will need an outlet for support. Be proactive and plan to create support as your semester begins. And if you’re struggling with coming out at college, Campus Pride has a resource tailored for you – and here is the most current copy of the Coming Out as a Transgender Person Workbook.

The simplest way to get connected with like-minded peers is to join a student organization. Clubs and other associates exist no matter the size of your school, including if you attend community college. Look for organizations that cater to queer identities (if possible) or interests you have. If you find your university lacks sufficient organizations, you’re entitled to create your own as long as you follow your school’s policies and have a staff member to serve as the club sponsor. In my experience, LGBTQIA+ college student organizations are way more active than high school ones – from anti-bullying campaigns to social functions, they’re worth checking out and giving a chance.

Speaking of which, check to see if your college has an LGBTQIA+ resource center. These are specific departments created by the university to handle LGBTQIA+ issues, training, clubs, and support. Schools with resource centers typically score higher on all metrics of the Campus Pride Index since they help recruit and retain queer students by fostering a safe campus environment. If your school lacks an LGBTQIA+ resource center, it may have something related like a “diversity department.” These are more common in community colleges and smaller schools that lack the funds to have multiple departments.

It feels like a stereotype, but queer people are good at finding each other. Use your natural gaydar to find safe friends to connect with. They don’t have to necessarily dress or “look” gay, but trust your gut when you feel good or bad vibes from your fellow classmates. People pay to go to college and learn, so they’re at least marginally more open-minded than the general population.

Being transgender shouldn’t limit you from traditional college activities that your cisgender peers get to enjoy. Don’t limit yourself to hobbies and organizations solely surrounding your queer identity – use every resource available to you and try every club that you find interesting. Beyond clubs, the most common social resources are sports and Greek life.

Currently, per “Keeping Men Out of Women’s Sports,” transfeminine individuals are barred completely from participating in college sports. Transmasculine and nonbinary folks might be technically allowed right now, but you’re unlikely to find these spaces welcoming. As most readers probably know, these bans are based on vast misunderstandings of existing laws and policies – but the harm still exists.

The TLDR is that anti-transgender sports bans overwhelmingly overestimate transgender people’s involvement in athletic competitions and overwhelmingly underestimate the laws that already dictate when and if transgender people can perform. For example, while approximately 10,500 people try out for the Olympics, fewer than a dozen might identify as transgender. That calculates to 0.001% of those folks trying out. To not be automatically disqualified during this process, transgender people must provide medical and legal documentation of their gender identity – which includes proving they have been consistently using estrogen HRT and using testosterone supplements for multiple years to force their hormone levels to be identical to biologically female competitors. This standard by the International Olympic Committee is enforced in other sports, and for decades, it was the same applied to student sports. The Trump ban supersedes these precedents and bars trans people from competing no matter what. In the context of school, sports are well-understood as crucial for supporting students’ emotional and physical well-being since they provide an outlet for exercise while fostering team-building. Yet, because of the Trump administration’s ban, transgender students are forbidden from having these experiences.

“Keeping Men Out of Women’s Sports” is centered on competitive sports, so it’s unclear how strictly it is applied to noncompetitive or intramural sports clubs, but I advise caution since it will largely depend on the political climate of your school on whether they will use the executive order against you.

You don’t find many LGBTQIA+ people in Greek life. Part of it comes from its long history of strict gender roles for frat boys and sorority girls. Another part comes from Greek organizations not being kind to marginalized folks, especially considering how many organizations get accused of sexual harassment and hazing. Then, of course, Greek life is associated with higher incomes since joining these associations generally requires annual fees. Despite this, there are Greek organizations with explicit mission statements that include transgender people – and there are also organizations founded by LGBTQIA+ students.

Some sororities include:

• Alpha Chi Omega (ΑΧΩ)
• Alpha Delta Pi (ΑΔΠ)
• Alpha Epsilon Phi (ΑΕΦ)
• Alpha Gamma Delta (ΑΓΔ)
• Alpha Lambda Zeta (ΑΛΖ)
• Alpha Omicron Pi (ΑΟΠ)
• Alpha Pi Delta        (ΑΠΔ)
• Alpha Sigma Alpha (AΣA)
• Alpha Sigma Tau (ΑΣΤ)
• Alpha Xi Delta (ΑΞΔ)
• Beta Phi Omega        (ΒΦΩ)
• Delta Delta Delta (ΔΔΔ)
• Delta Gamma (ΔΓ)
• Delta Phi Epsilon (ΔΦΕ)
• Gamma Phi Beta (ΓΦΒ)
• Gamma Rho Lambda (GRL)
• Eta Epsilon Gamma (ΗΕΓ)
• Eta Iota Mu (ΗΙΜ)
• Kappa Alpha Lambda (ΚΑΛ)
• Kappa Alpha Theta (ΚΑΘ)
• Kappa Delta (ΚΔ)
• Kappa Kappa Gamma (ΚΚΓ)
• Kappa Omega Omicron        (ΚΏΟ)
• Kappa Theta Epsilon (ΚΘΕ)
• Kappa Xi Omega (ΚΞΩ)
• Lambda Delta Lambda (ΛΔΛ)
• Omicron Epsilon Pi (ΟΕΠ)
• Phi Omega (ΦΩ)
• Phi Sigma Sigma (ΦΣΣ)
• Sigma Alpha Iota (ΣAI)
• Sigma Delta Tau (ΣΔΤ)
• Sigma Omega Phi (ΣΩΦ)
• Sigma Phi Chi (ΣΦΧ)
• Sigma Sigma Sigma (ΣΣΣ)
• Theta Phi Alpha (ΘΦΑ)
• Zeta Omega Eta (ΖΩΗ)
• Zeta Tau Alpha (ΖΤΑ)
• Zeta Theta Psi (ΖΘΨ)

Some fraternities include:

• Acacia
• Alpha Sigma Phi (AΣΦ)
• Beta Gamma Pi (ΒΓΠ)
• Beta Theta Pi (BΘΠ)
• Chi Phi (XΦ)
• Chi Psi (XΨ)
• Delta Chi (ΔX)
• Delta Lambda Phi (ΔΛΦ)
• Delta Phi Upsilon (ΔΦΥ)
• Delta Sigma Phi (ΔΣΦ)
• Delta Tau Delta (ΔΤΔ)
• Delta Upsilon (ΔΥ)
• Kappa Delta Rho (KΔP)
• Kappa Kappa Psi (KKΨ)
• Kappa Psi Kappa (ΚΨΚ)
• Lambda Chi Alpha (ΛXA)
• Omega Delta Phi (ΩΔΦ)
• Phi Delta Theta (ΦΔΘ)
• Phi Kappa Tau (ΦKT)
• Phi Sigma Kappa (ΦΣK)
• Pi Kappa Alpha (ΠKA)
• Pi Kappa Phi (ΠKΦ)
• Pi Lambda Phi (ΠΛΦ)
• Psi Upsilon (ΨY)
• Sigma Alpha Epsilon (ΣAE)
• Sigma Chi (ΣΧ)
• Sigma Epsilon Omega (ΣΕΩ)
• Sigma Phi Beta (ΣΦΒ)
• Sigma Phi Epsilon (ΣΦE)
• Sigma Nu (ΣN)
• Sigma Tau Gamma (ΣTΓ)
• Tau Beta Sigma (TBΣ)
• Tau Kappa Epsilon (ΤΚΕ)
• Theta Chi (ΘX)
• Theta Delta Chi (ΘΔX)
• Theta Xi (ΘΞ)
• Zeta Alpha Delta (ΖΑΔ)
• Zeta Beta Tau (ZBT)

And some all-gender Greek associations include:

• Alpha Delta Phi Society (ΑΔΦ)
• The Euglossian Society (ΕΥΓ)
• Lambda Alpha Lambda (ΛΑΛ)
• Lambda Delta Xi (ΛΔΞ)
• Nu Delta (ΝΔ)
• Phi Sigma Pi (ΦΣΠ)
• Th Delta Sigma (ΘΔΣ)
• Theta Pi Sigma (ΘΠΣ)
• Zeta Delta Xi (ΖΔΞ)
• Sigma Omicron Rho (ΣΟΡ)

Even if you are introverted, shy, or otherwise not a social person, I highly recommend creating an in-person support system. Go to club meetings, join your local community, and make IRL friends. Entirely online support systems don’t foster the same level of mental wellness – although they can still be useful. For that purpose, here are some online resources for transgender college students.

1️⃣ Advocate for Trans Equality @ 202-642-4542

2️⃣ American Civil Liberties Union @ 212-549-2500

3️⃣ GLSEN @ 212-727-0135

4️⃣ GSA Network @ 415-552-4229

5️⃣ LGBT National Help Center Youth Talkline @ 800-246-743

6️⃣ PFLAG @ 202-467-8180

7️⃣ The Trevor Project @ 866-488-7386

8️⃣ Trans Lifeline @ 877-565-8860

9️⃣ TSER

⭐ Looking for generic trans resources? Click here.

Between going to class, making friends, and inevitably dealing with conflict, you need to set aside time for self-care. Do things you enjoy. Engage in therapy. Work on setting boundaries. Develop hobbies to do in your free time that don’t feel like work. And if you struggle with self-care, here’s an info hub by GSA Network.

And of course, small things matter. Assuming your dorm or living space allows it, cultivate your room to foster a sense of pride. You’ll be spending a lot of time in your room, so make it inviting – hang up a pride flag, put up some posters, and decorate the space to inspire joy. After a potentially long day at class dealing with people, don’t you deserve to feel comfortable and proud of who you are?